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24 alternatives to 3som

Alternative dating app for open-minded couples

Below are 24 products that do a similar job, ranked by how close each is in meaning and then by launch-day votes. 3som launched in 2019; newer entries below may have overtaken it.

1. 1
   3nder 3.0▲89

   Date kinky, curious, and openminded singles & couples

   2015 · its alternatives →

2. 2
   Feeld▲75

   Date open-minded couples and singles. Formerly 3nder

   2016 · feeld.co · its alternatives →

3. 3
   3nder▲142

   Tinder for threesomes

   2014 · its alternatives →

4. 4
   DOWN Dating App▲75

   Date on Easy Mode

   2021 · downapp.com · its alternatives →

5. 5
   Twosome - app created originally for my girlfriend▲32

   Dating is for doubles.

   2013 · twosomeapp.com · its alternatives →

6. 6
   Me3▲110

   Smart Tinder for friendships, privately matching 3 at a time

   2017 · world2game.cc · its alternatives →

7. 7
   Twoo - Meet new people▲70

   A free stunning iOS dating app that works

   2015 · itunes.apple.com · its alternatives →

8. 8
   COUPLESY▲193

   Relationship checkins and date ideas to nuture and grow love

   2023 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →

9. 9
   Lobstr▲63

   A modern dating platform

   2020 · its alternatives →

10. 10MN
    my new project, an anti-snub dating site▲119

    2011 · secretpoke.com · its alternatives →

11. 11
    Tuned▲157

    A new app for couples, by the Facebook NPE team

    2020 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →

12. 12
    Hinge 7.0▲114

    The dating app that’s designed to be deleted

    2019 · hinge.co · its alternatives →

13. 13
    HalloApp▲120

    The first real-relationship network. In complete privacy.

    2021 · its alternatives →

14. 14
    3nder▲22

    Threesomes made easy.

    2014 · its alternatives →

15. 15
    DearReal▲85

    Safe, genuine and private

    2023 · dearreal.com · its alternatives →

16. 16
    Dateable▲10

    Find Your Perfect Match

    2025 · its alternatives →

17. 17
    Siingly▲86

    The dating app for people that don't like dating apps

    2023 · its alternatives →

18. 18
    Milofy▲71

    Socialize with other like-minded couples

    2016 · its alternatives →

19. 19
    So Syncd▲74

    The personality type dating app

    2021 · sosyncd.com · its alternatives →

20. 20
    24 hours && 24 red bulls▲17

    DOWN is the safe space for women to explore casual dating or something deeper. Honest, fun, and pressure-free — connect with open-minded people and find what feels right.

    2012 · bangwithfriends.com · its alternatives →

21. 21
    Two Halves▲84

    Ephemeral speed-dating app

    2018 · twohalves.netlify.com · its alternatives →

22. 22
    Pure▲70

    The hook up app for awesome people.

    2017 · pure.app · its alternatives →

23. 23
    We3▲71

    AI that finds you the most compatible people nearby

    2018 · we3.app.link · its alternatives →

24. 24
    sndbx▲65

    Event based dating

    2016 · sndbxapp.com · its alternatives →

Ranked by how close each launch is in meaning, then by votes. Prices were read from each product’s own site when checked and can change. Refine with your own description →