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24 alternatives to HER (Dattch)

Lesbian, Queer and Bisexual dating, friendship, networking

Below are 24 products that do a similar job, ranked by how close each is in meaning and then by launch-day votes. HER (Dattch) launched in 2015; newer entries below may have overtaken it.

1. 1
   Dattch▲76

   Dating app for lesbian/bi women

   2014 · dattch.com · its alternatives →

2. 2
   Her▲182

   The app for lesbian, bisexual and queer people

   2015 · weareher.com · its alternatives →

3. 3
   CoffeeMe▲122

   Tinder for Professional Networking

   2013 · coffeeme.in · its alternatives →

4. 4
   MyCuteFriend▲86

   Where every guy comes recommended (Lulu meets Tinder)

   2014 · its alternatives →

5. 5
   Hey! VINA▲94

   Tinder for (girl) friends

   2016 · heyvina.com · its alternatives →

6. 6
   Weave▲137

   Tinder for professionals nearby

   2014 · its alternatives →

7. 7
   Quinn▲91

   Your personal matchmaker

   2016 · meetquinn.com · its alternatives →

8. 8
   Leap by YC▲181

   Where women in tech can talk about whatever we want

   2018 · its alternatives →

9. 9
   HER: Cat ▲1

   Lesbian Cat Dating

   2015 · weareher.com · its alternatives →

10. 10
    CoupleConvos▲80

    Connect with your partner

    2015 · coupleconvos.com · its alternatives →

11. 11
    GeekGirl Meets Girl on the Net▲61

    Let's talk about sex tech with an infamous sex blogger

    2016 · soundcloud.com · its alternatives →

12. 12
    Bae▲82

    Where people of color, meet, chat and date

    2016 · baeapp.co · its alternatives →

13. 13
    VINA▲87

    Connecting awesome women for fun, for work, for life

    2017 · vina.io · its alternatives →

14. 14
    Tastemates▲117

    Find mates who share your taste

    2017 · its alternatives →

15. 15
    Hitch▲111

    Play the matchmaker. Set up your friends.

    2014 · hitchapp.co · its alternatives →

16. 16
    Be▲120

    Tinder for career discovery

    2016 · its alternatives →

17. 17
    LGBT News▲73

    Hacker News for LGBT topics

    2014 · equaldex.com · its alternatives →

18. 18
    Collide▲77

    Tinder for Christian dating

    2015 · its alternatives →

19. 19
    3nder▲142

    Tinder for threesomes

    2014 · its alternatives →

20. 20
    Sapio▲129

    Find fellow intellectuals to love

    2017 · jeffersonjpc.org · its alternatives →

21. 21
    WUT▲117

    Anonymously chat with friends

    2014 · wutwut.com · its alternatives →

22. 22
    Style Girlfriend▲92

    Real-time style recommendations via SMS

    2016 · its alternatives →

23. 23
    Mixely▲69

    An offline social network

    2014 · mixely.com · its alternatives →

24. 24
    Chatous▲99

    Meet new people and talk about what matters to you.

    2014 · chatous.com · its alternatives →

Ranked by how close each launch is in meaning, then by votes. Prices were read from each product’s own site when checked and can change. Refine with your own description →