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24 alternatives to My Spicy Vanilla

Creative date night ideas

Below are 24 products that do a similar job, ranked by how close each is in meaning and then by launch-day votes. My Spicy Vanilla launched in 2020; newer entries below may have overtaken it.

1. 1
   Date Night Questions▲261

   Questions to help you know your friends & loved ones better.

   2020 · its alternatives →

2. 2
   Spark▲105

   Romantic ideas and reminders for your special someone

   2016 · its alternatives →

3. 3
   Datebox▲116

   Everything you need for a fun and creative date.

   2016 · its alternatives →

4. 4
   Duocook▲183

   The recipe app for couples

   2025 · its alternatives →

5. 5
   Whim▲89

   Go on a date tonight (mobile web only)

   2014 · its alternatives →

6. 6
   Party with a Local 2.0▲314

   Because a night out anywhere is better with a local

   2016 · its alternatives →

7. 7
   Virtual Date Night▲119

   Fun activities for couples to get closer while apart

   2021 · its alternatives →

8. 8
   Highball▲203

   Share and collect cocktail recipes

   2015 · its alternatives →

9. 9
   Dinder▲104

   Find someone to make dinner with tonight

   2023 · its alternatives →

10. 10
    Best Date Ever▲67

    Fellas, get weekly romantic ideas delivered to your inbox

    2022 · its alternatives →

11. 11
    Spin the Bottle▲142

    Live video speed dates with people nearby

    2016 · its alternatives →

12. 12
    Should I Party Tonight?▲128

    1-Click generator to know if you should party tonight 🎉

    2016 · its alternatives →

13. 13
    Spice▲64

    Send compliments & meet new people

    2023 · its alternatives →

14. 14
    Date Me Virtually▲88

    Discovery platform for virtual date ideas

    2021 · its alternatives →

15. 15
    Fever▲78

    A playfully competitive way to meet new dates

    2015 · its alternatives →

16. 16
    OK Cupid▲102

    Better dates and better relationships with DoubleTake

    2017 · its alternatives →

17. 17
    Toast (Beta)▲101

    Dating that doesn’t go stale

    2021 · its alternatives →

18. 18
    Daily Yum▲104

    Ideas and recipes from all over the world!

    2017 · its alternatives →

19. 19
    Fever▲82

    Discover the best events in your city.

    2014 · its alternatives →

20. 20
    Twogether▲106

    A shared & synced date idea list for you and your partner

    Nov 2025 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →

21. 21
    Cherrypick▲99

    Match on events, not on Tinder! Valentine's Day Special

    2017 · its alternatives →

22. 22
    Dates A-Z▲5

    Creative dates, AI guru, and fun couple duels & challenges

    2025 · datesaz.com · its alternatives →

23. 23
    BaeLife▲113

    Your personal date night planner, powered by Foursquare

    2017 · its alternatives →

24. 24
    LoveSpot▲94

    A dating CRM for the 21st century

    2017 · its alternatives →

Ranked by how close each launch is in meaning, then by votes. Prices were read from each product’s own site when checked and can change. Refine with your own description →