Life & fun · alternatives · 2026

24 alternatives to This ow That

let people & friends help you choose between two things.

Below are 24 products that do a similar job, ranked by how close each is in meaning and then by launch-day votes. This ow That launched in 2020; newer entries below may have overtaken it.

1
ToT: ThisOrThat▲101
Let your friends choose this or that for you
2015 · thetotapp.com · its alternatives →
2
Help Me Decide Please▲194
Decision are hard :( This will help.
2020 · helpmedecideplease.com · its alternatives →
3
You Should Meet▲162
An app to make quick and easy introductions between 2 people
2017 · youshouldmeet.com · its alternatives →
4
Stream Vote▲65
Vote to choose what to watch with friends
2021 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →
5
Just Pick One Already▲10
Helps make a decision when you can't f**ked
2021 · its alternatives →
6
Tinder, but to decide what to eat▲266
Hello HN, My girlfriend and I waste too much energy to decide what to eat. Every day, we would text each other, "what do we eat tonight" messages, and go over options and many times spend too much time on deciding. I am an indie dev and created this app to solve my own problem: decide with my girlfriend what to eat for dinner. Initially, I created a simple app, in which we listed all the recipes we ever prepared, and it would propose randomly three of them. We would then choose together one of them. This app[0] turned into a tinder-like app, which would propose every day a set of recipes to…
2024 · whatdinner.com · its alternatives →
7
PAIA▲71
Help your friends make decisions
2020 · its alternatives →
8
💯▲162
The simplest way to get feedback from your friends
2017 · its alternatives →
9
Choiced - Pick the perfect Outfit▲75
Get outfit feedback like an Influencer.
2024 · its alternatives →
10
Playback▲90
A game to see which songs make your friends think of you
2021 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →
11
Tossup▲66
An easier, faster way to make decisions with friends
2015 · mspoweruser.com · its alternatives →
12
The Spoke▲86
Instantly discover and decide what to do with friends.
2019 · its alternatives →
13
Handshake▲81
Let's agree to agree
2023 · hand-shake.dev · its alternatives →
14
Compare - Create Polls & Vote▲68
An app for creating polls with friends
2021 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →
15
Polly▲92
Opine funnily & anonymously
2017 · its alternatives →
16
Agree▲123
Polls with friends
2021 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →
17
Versus for iMessage▲72
Let friends help you make the best decisions
2016 · wearewip.com · its alternatives →
18
Helpful▲105
Engage your teams with short mobile videos
2018 · its alternatives →
19
Swayer▲75
Vote with friends for easy decision making
2019 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →
20
Instincts▲69
Follow your instincts and choose left or right!
2016 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →
21
EatUps▲70
Find a place to eat with friends, without the frustration
2023 · eatups.app · its alternatives →
22
ThisWon Beta▲71
Decisions with friends - vote on photo-based posts
2015 · apps.apple.com · its alternatives →
23
Referrral▲90
Recommend your friends, pay it forward.
2014 · referrral.com · its alternatives →
24
Ask & Shake▲63
Don't overthink, ask anything
2022 · its alternatives →

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